Privacy Policy
What we collect, why we need it, who can see it, and how to get it deleted. Written to match exactly what the app does.
The short version
- We ask for what a dating app needs: your email, date of birth, gender, the story you write, and who you'd like to meet.
- Other members see your age (never your birth date), city, languages, what you're looking for, interests and your story. They never see your email.
- There are no photos in Qisso, we don't track your location, and we don't read your contacts.
- We don't sell your data, and we don't show ads.
- Your chats are private. We automatically check messages for scams and shared contact details to keep you safe (section 5). A person reads a chat only when someone reports a problem in it.
- You can delete your account in the app at any time. Your profile and story go immediately.
1Who we are
Qisso is run by Saurabh Shinde, based in Pune, Maharashtra, India ("we", "us"). We decide how your personal data is used, which makes us the "Data Fiduciary" under India's Digital Personal Data Protection Act, 2023.
By creating an account you agree to this policy and our Terms of Service. The app asks for this consent before it collects anything beyond your email address.
2What we collect
Information you give us
| What | Details |
|---|---|
| Sign-in | Your email address. If you use "Continue with Google", we receive your Google account's email address and an account ID from Google, nothing else. If you later add a phone number to verify your account, we keep that number too. |
| Basics | Date of birth, gender, your confirmation that you're 18 or over, and when you accepted our Terms. |
| Profile | Headline, city, languages, what you're looking for (long-term, open to see, marriage-minded), who you'd like to meet (gender and age range) and interests. |
| Your story | Your About me, the interests you choose and write about (including any you name yourself), what you're hoping to find, any other chapters you write, and edits waiting for review. |
| Notes and chats | Connection notes you send and receive, and messages in your conversations. If a note replies to one part of someone's story, a short quote of that part is saved with the note, so it still makes sense if they edit their story later. |
| Safety actions | People you block, people you pass on (and the reason, if you give one), and reports you make, including what you write in them. |
| Settings | Whether Discover or requests are paused, how many new requests you want a day, and whether you've allowed optional usage data. |
Who you'd like to meet can reveal your sexual orientation, and your story may include things like your religion or community if you choose to write about them. We use these only to run Qisso for you, as described below. You don't have to include them in your story.
Information created as you use Qisso
- Activity: which stories you were shown each day (so we don't show them again), requests you sent and received with their status, connections, and your early-member number or waitlist place (kept by us, not shown to other members).
- Sign-in records: one-time codes (stored only in scrambled, "hashed" form, for 5 minutes), and sign-in tokens that keep you logged in for up to 30 days.
- Technical data: your IP address, used to limit how many codes and requests can be made from one place, to stop spam and abuse. Our servers' logs may also record it. Logs don't contain your codes, tokens or message text.
- Error reports: if the app or server hits an error, we may record technical details to fix it. These don't include your messages, story or contact details.
What we don't collect
- No photos. Qisso doesn't ask for any.
- No location tracking. Your city is what you type in.
- No contacts, call logs or SMS from your phone.
- No advertising IDs and no advertising trackers.
- No usage analytics. The app has a switch for optional, anonymous usage data, and it's off unless you turn it on. We don't collect any analytics today; we'll update this policy before we start.
3Why we use it
- To sign you in and keep your account secure: your email (or Google account) and one-time codes.
- To keep Qisso for adults: your date of birth confirms you're 18 or over.
- To show you stories that fit, and show yours to people looking for someone like you: your gender, who you'd like to meet, age range, city, languages and intention.
- To run requests and chats: delivering notes, limiting how many requests each person receives a day, and ordering incoming requests (see section 5).
- To keep the community balanced: we use gender to manage the waitlist when many more men than women are joining, and to count our first members.
- To keep people safe: reviewing stories, warning about likely scams, handling reports, and suspending accounts that break our Terms.
- To fix problems and keep the service running.
- To meet legal duties, such as responding to lawful requests from authorities.
We don't use your data for advertising and we don't sell it.
4What other members see
| Shown on your story | Never shown |
|---|---|
| Your age, city, languages, what you're looking for, interests, headline, your story (About me, interest stories and other chapters), and badges such as "Email verified" and "Profile reviewed". | Your email address, phone number, date of birth, who you've blocked or reported, and whether anyone has reported you. |
- Your story appears only to people whose preferences match you, and only after it has been approved.
- A connection note is seen only by the person you send it to, with the part of their story it replies to. Messages are seen only by the two people in the conversation.
- If you block someone, they can no longer see your story or contact you.
- You can pause Discover or requests in Settings at any time.
5Automatic checks and moderation
To keep Qisso respectful and safe, some checks run automatically:
- Stories and notes are checked for abusive words and for contact details (phone numbers, emails, links and social handles), which aren't allowed there. If something is found, you're asked to change it before it's saved or sent.
- Notes are compared with notes you've sent in the last 30 days. If a new note is almost the same as an earlier one, you're warned; after repeated near-copies, such notes are refused.
- Messages that contain contact details ask you to confirm before they're sent, so nobody shares a number by accident.
- Messages are also checked for common scam signs, such as asking for money or pushing to move off the app. If one is found, the receiver sees a safety reminder next to it, and the type of sign found is saved with the message. The message is still delivered; nobody reads it because of this check.
- Incoming requests are ordered using signals such as how much care went into the note. This score is internal and never shown to anyone.
People involved: a moderator reads every new story, and every story edit, before it goes live. Moderators look at a conversation only when one of the people in it reports the other, and then only that conversation. Every moderator action is recorded in an audit log.
6Who we share it with
We share personal data only with providers who help us run Qisso, and only what each one needs:
| Provider | What for | What they get |
|---|---|---|
| Amazon Web Services (AWS Lightsail), servers in Mumbai, India | Hosting our servers and database | All the data described in this policy, stored on our behalf |
| Resend | Sending your sign-in and account-deletion codes by email | Your email address and the code. Resend is based in the United States; our emails are sent from its Tokyo (Japan) region. |
| Cloudflare | Hosting this website, and forwarding emails sent to our support and grievance addresses | Visits to this website (as any website host does), and emails you send to support@qisso.in or grievance@qisso.in while they are forwarded to us. Cloudflare is based in the United States. |
| "Continue with Google" sign-in, and distributing the app through Google Play | For sign-in, Google confirms your identity to us. Google Play handles app downloads and, in future, payments, under Google's own privacy policy. Emails you send to our support and grievance addresses arrive in our Gmail inbox. | |
| Error tracking service (if enabled) | Finding and fixing crashes | Technical error details only, no messages, stories or contact details |
Some of these providers process data outside India. Where they do, we rely on their contractual commitments to protect it, and we follow any restrictions the Government of India sets on transfers to specific countries.
We may also disclose data when the law requires it, for example to a court or a law enforcement agency with a valid legal request, or when it's needed to protect someone's safety. If Qisso is ever sold or merged, your data would move to the new owner under this policy, and we'd tell you first.
7How long we keep it
While your account is open, we keep your data so the app works. When you delete your account:
| Data | What happens |
|---|---|
| Profile, story, preferences, pending story edits | Deleted immediately, including quotes of your story saved on notes other people sent you |
| Email, phone number, Google account link, date of birth, gender | Erased immediately. You can sign up again with the same email as a new person. |
| Requests and connections | Ended immediately |
| Messages and notes you sent | Hidden from everyone immediately, then permanently deleted after 90 days |
| Content in an open safety report | If someone has reported you, or you reported someone, the messages and notes between the two of you are kept until the report is resolved, then deleted. Nothing with anyone else is kept for this reason. |
| Reports and moderation records | Kept so we can deal with repeat abuse and meet legal duties. They point to an account ID with no personal details left in it. |
| Sign-in sessions | Ended immediately; the expired records are removed within 30 days |
| Backups | Our backups are kept for 14 days, so your data disappears from them within 14 days of deletion |
Messages and notes you received from others are part of their conversations and stay in their accounts.
8Your rights and choices
Under the Digital Personal Data Protection Act, 2023 you have the right to:
- Know what personal data we hold about you and how we use it.
- Correct or update it. You can edit your story, profile and preferences in the app.
- Erase it. Delete your account in the app (My Story → Delete account), or see how to delete your account.
- Withdraw consent at any time. Withdrawing consent means deleting your account, since we can't run a dating profile without the data above. You can switch optional usage data off at any time in Settings.
- Nominate someone to exercise these rights for you if you die or become unable to.
- Raise a grievance with our Grievance Officer (below) and, if you aren't satisfied, with the Data Protection Board of India.
To make any request, email grievance@qisso.in from the email address on your account, so we can confirm it's you.
9Adults only
Qisso is only for people aged 18 and over. If the date of birth entered at sign-up is under 18, the account is blocked straight away and can't continue. We keep a record of that blocked sign-in so the same email can't simply try again. If you believe someone under 18 is using Qisso, report them in the app or email us, and we'll act quickly.
10How we protect it
- All traffic between the app and our servers is encrypted (HTTPS).
- One-time codes are stored only in hashed form and expire after 5 minutes; failed attempts are limited.
- Sign-in tokens are short-lived, rotate on use, and are revoked when you sign out or delete your account.
- Only a small number of moderators can access the admin tools; their access is re-checked on every action, and every action is logged.
No system is perfectly secure. If a breach ever affects your personal data, we'll tell you and the Data Protection Board as the law requires.
11Changes to this policy
If we change this policy, we'll update the date at the top. If a change matters, for example a new kind of data or a new provider, we'll tell you in the app before it takes effect and, where needed, ask for your consent again.
12Contact and grievances
- Name
- Saurabh Shinde
- grievance@qisso.in
- Response
- We acknowledge complaints within 24 hours and aim to resolve them within 15 days.
For anything else, write to support@qisso.in.